In our life and leadership journey, we often find ourselves standing at the crossroads of introspection, grappling with questions that shape our identity, purpose, and direction. These aren't just any questions; they are the existential questions that form the bedrock of our mission. If you have ever attended our Living and Leading Intentional workshop, you know that we dive into four fundamental questions: Who am I? Who do you want to be? What do you want to do? How do you want to do it?
Who am I?
This question is the starting point of our self-discovery journey. It's about acknowledging our strengths, embracing our weaknesses, and understanding our core values. It's about peeling back the layers of societal expectations and unearthing our authentic selves. Remember, this isn't a one-time question; it's a continuous exploration as we evolve and grow.
Who do you want to be?
This question is about envisioning our future selves. It's about setting personal and professional goals that align with our values and aspirations. It's about defining the kind of person we want to become and the impact we want to have on the world. As we ponder this question, we remember to be ambitious yet realistic, setting goals that challenge us but are also achievable.
What do you want to do?
This question is about identifying our purpose. It's about understanding what truly motivates us, what we are passionate about, and how we can use our unique skills and talents to make a difference. Whether it's leading a team, starting a business, or contributing to a cause close to our hearts, this question helps us align our actions with our purpose.
How do you want to do it?
This question is about strategizing our path and leaving a legacy. It's about determining the steps we need to take to achieve our goals and fulfill our purpose. It's about being proactive, taking responsibility for our journey, and ensuring our values are leading us through the challenges that come our way. As we navigate this question, let's remember to be flexible and adaptable, ready to adjust our plans as circumstances change.
These four questions are not just introspective exercises; they are the compass guiding our journey of personal and professional growth. They help us stay true to ourselves, pursue our passions, and lead with purpose. As we navigate the challenges of life and leadership, let's keep these questions at the forefront, using them as a guide to stay aligned with our mission.
We should remember it's not about having all the answers; it's about asking the right questions. So, let's keep asking, exploring, and growing.
And as we do, let's remember to be well and brave.
-Tray T.S. Deadwyler, CVM, CLC, CBC
Think For Good, Inc.
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